by admin | May 10, 2023 | Uncategorized
Mother’s Day when you have a narcissisitic mother is a weird holiday. The mixed emotions, the performative love and abuse behind closed doors is a cognitive dissonance that’s hard to understand as a child. In this episode, i’m sharing my journey...
by admin | May 2, 2023 | Uncategorized
Another unsaid experience in narcissistic abuse recovery is the repeated loss of idealization. Having to reconcile, over and over again, the disappointment of someone or something not being what it appeared to be. In this episode, I’m sharing my experience of...
by admin | Apr 25, 2023 | Uncategorized
Inner child work gets a lot of screen time but inner teenager work has been proven to be as vital in our recovery as inner child work. While the inner child is often the phase where our inner template is started, the inner teenager is the phase where we start to...
by admin | Apr 18, 2023 | Uncategorized
Does it feel like no matter how much inner work you do, the outside world never seems to see it? One of the unsaid experiences of recovering from narcissistic trauma is the layers of mini traumas we experience because we are neurodivergents in a white capitalist...
by admin | Apr 11, 2023 | Uncategorized
Emotional permanence is the expectation that someone’s feelings about us are stable and consistent with and without their presence. When we’ve experienced emotional neglect in childhood due to a narcissistic mother/parent, our ability to create emotional...
by admin | Mar 28, 2023 | Uncategorized
The major effect of childhood narcissistic abuse is the internalizing of negative beliefs that prevent you from living life on your terms as an adult. One of these core wounds is learned helplessness. In this episode, I share what learned helplessness is, how it shows...
